The Holiday Party

It’s the most wonderful time of the year!  With the holiday season officially upon us (despite retailers trying to push it upon us since November 1), employees are either looking forward to or dreading their office holiday parties.  No matter your opinion of it, the annual holiday party is really a great way to get to know your coworkers outside of a work setting and on a more personal level.

While many companies are cutting back on costs, a recent workopolis.com survey has indicated that only 11% of holiday parties are being cancelled this year.  In fact, 68% of employers intend to spend the same amount of money on this year’s holiday party, and 10% are planning on spending more than last year!  That being said, many of us have a holiday party to look forward to, so here are ten holiday party offences (compiled from careerbuilder.ca).

1. Assuming you don’t have to go. While you may not want to go, you have to.  Unless you have a legitimate, unavoidable reason to miss the party, you need to show your face for at least a little bit.  Whether you think it or not, your absense will be noticed.
2. Dressing inappropriately. Just because it is a “party” doesn’t mean you are able to dress like you would for a night out with your friends.  Your company dress code still applies.  If you are unsure what to wear, ask your coworkers what they are wearing ahead of time, and plan accordingly.
3. Not eating beforehand. Drinking on an empty stomach is never a good idea, and often there are cocktails before the food is served.  Save yourself some embarrassment and have a snack!
4. Pitching ideas to management. You are not on work time, don’t try to use this as an opportunity to have your voice heard.
5. Getting drunk! This is NEVER a good idea.  While it is acceptable to have a couple drinks, do so responsibly.  You don’t want to be the one everyone is talking about on Monday.
6. Hooking up. I don’t think this needs any explanation.
7. Bringing a crazy date. Remember that you will be associated with your date’s behaviour, so be careful how they act.  Monitor the amount they drink, and if things get out of hand, make your exit.
8. Being negative. Even if you don’t want to be there, but on a happy face and check your negativity at the door.
9. Not using manners. Common sense…say please and thank you, chew with your mouth closed and watch the potty mouth.  This is still a work function, so use the same manners you would at work.
10. Watch the dance moves. You can’t dance at a work function like you do at the club.  This is highly inappropriate, and again could make you the subject of talk and gossip on Monday.  If you are afraid as to how your moves may be interpreted, avoid the dance floor altogether.